You love the way she smiles, each time you look deep in her eyes the clock stops ticking for a while. Her pretty face makes you realize what you have gained and obviously you never want to see her in any pain. So just stop for a moment and ask yourself do her eyes startle each time she gets a glimpse of you? Are your arms the place where she forgets all? Are you being the man you promised her to be?
So get a checklist and start marking down as we bring out to you the Dos & Dont’s of being the man of her dreams.
Cook for her more often
It does no good sitting in front of the idiot box and waiting for your lady to bring out the food. A so called ‘loving husband’ may argue that ‘I love watching her cook each evening. Looking won’t do it all. Get yourself in that apron and surprise her with a fabulous meal. This surprise is sure to turn out into a romantic one, you cook more often you have more good times together. Even if you are not good at it that genuine effort will surely win her heart again and in case you are a great chef you now how to mark yourself in your report card beside this point.
Don’t be over protective
You bring the world on her feet, you are her superman but one of the stupidest thing you might do is sheltering her from rain that she would love to be in. You should not forget that along with being a wife to you she is an individual who has her own dreams and aspirations. Don’t be that hiccup in the dream instead support and encourage her.
Nothing else will put a prettier smile on her face than a fine compliment. Women like to get compliments every now and then. Now she is your wife and don’t take her for granted, keep the relationship spiced up between you two. This will also make her feel confident about herself and the fire between you two is surely not gonna cool down between you two.
Don’t ignore her complaints
You have a habit that bothers her a lot, you feel she just nags about it the whole time. That’s exactly the place you really not want to be in if you care about your beloved wife or at least yourself. Its time you seriously look upon the things she does not like you to be in, have a talk with her or else times may come where you two will have to go through a bumpy ride.
A Weekend getaway
You spent all your weekdays away from her, been busy with work, a long time since you held her in her arms. A surprise weekend getaway for your wife is sure to spice things up between you two. This getaway can also be a chance to work out things between the two of you if somethings have been off for a while. Your wife will realize that you love spending time with her and not just sitting around the bar crashing with your guys.
Be ready for her mood swings
There is nothing in this world that can save you from your wife’s mood swings. Though you might not be the prey to this but you will get to feel its wrath in some or the other way. No husband would like to see her queen going through tough times so during times like these try and be a good listener. Do not be a judge instead be an attorney for whom his client (wifey) is always right. Later when she realizes that there was no need for being so crass she will understand that you are the perfect man for her.
Don’t leave her out for anything else
If she needs you be there for her. Don’t be a jerk to leave her out for something as stupid as office work, you married your wife not your job. This will make you her hero and she knows the one person she has to look for anytime she is stuck with something.
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